Coercion, hostility, anger, rejection; are all signs of fear. They cease to exist when there is no fear.
These are paraphrases of points Krishnamurti made repeatedly. The dynamics surrounding fear cannot be ignored. They inflect not only how we react and respond ourselves, but hold some key to how we can find ways to speak to those around us and expand the spheres of compassion.
Here is a related question Krishnamurti also brought up. What do we have to offer to people caught up in Enormity and trapped by fear?